We've made the decision to hard launch our relationship to the government.
Please come be our witnesses in Bangkok. We'll make it worth your while, promise.
What we'll be up to
A note on timing
We're arriving a few days early to prep — and honestly, to adjust to the time zone so we're not asleep at our own wedding. Bangkok is 11 hours ahead of EST. We'd strongly recommend guests do the same if you're able.
Arrive and settle in. We'll gather for dinner and greetings — nothing formal, just everyone finding each other in the same city.
A curated day in the city. Exact schedule TBD — we're working on something good.
We say our vows. You cry. Then we celebrate — probably for a very long time.
Another day in the city. Time to recover, explore, and eat everything in sight.
Ancient temples, river views, and SHRIMP. This one's not optional (the shrimp, at least).
Safe travels to those heading home. Thailand is yours if you're staying on. We don't want the next time we see you to be at someone's funeral. Let's get together more.
The After-Wedding Party Party
We'll share our post-wedding itinerary closer to the date. Chiang Mai, Koh Lanta, we're not picky — tag along if you'd like.
Travel & Accommodations
Bangkok is a long haul — roughly 20–22 hours with a connection. Here's how to play it smart.
Flight tips
- Set a Google Flights price alert to BKK (Suvarnabhumi) from your home airport.
- Book 4–6 months out — fares spike close in.
- EVA Air, Japan Airlines, and Korean Air are consistently solid.
- We'll send tailored fare alerts once we have your RSVP.
Miles tips
- Star Alliance (United → Thai/ANA) and Oneworld (AA → Cathay/JAL) most reliable to BKK.
- Business class to Asia: one of the best uses of miles out there.
- Check partner portals — often better than booking direct.
- Need help? Text Tyler. He has opinions.
Attire
Bangkok in May is warm — read: hot — and there are temple visits involved.
Beat the heat
~90°F / 32°C with humidity. Linen, cotton, silk, lightweight crepe. Avoid polyester — you'll know why the moment you step outside.
Temple visits
Shoulders and knees covered for the ceremony and all temple visits. Loose trousers, maxi skirts, cover-ups. Always bring a scarf.
Color palette
No strict code — wear what makes you feel good. We love terracotta, sage, ivory, and amber if you'd like to coordinate.
The quick checklist
Registry
No one should feel obligated — your presence in Bangkok is the gift. But if you feel you must shower us with love and adoration, here you go.
The registry
Things we actually need and want for our home. Practical and a little fun.
View our registry →Donate in our honor
Two causes close to our hearts — donate in our name if that feels right.
See our picks →Experiences
A dinner, a cooking class, a weekend — we're always more excited about doing than having.
Experience gifts →RSVP
We need your response by November 1, 2026 so we can arrange accommodations. This one matters more than usual — we're booking rooms based on headcount.
Are you coming?
Please respond by November 1, 2026Give us a ring
Why be formal? We're just people with phones. Text us.
Seriously, just text us. There is no formal wedding email address. We refuse.
Frequently asked questions